I need help with my dream please

[ladyvenomwolf]

Hi everyone,
I am new at this but I am very lost, I hope someone can help me figure this out. Ok my very close guy friend Cory and I haven't spoke in a year, however lately he's been entering my dreams one would take place at this bar near where we used to live, I am playing pool with my sister inlaws and my youngest sister in law decides she's going to flirt with this guy sitting at a table when I see who it is she was referring to I got angry because it is Cory, he approaches me and we get into a little arguement about how he broke my heart, I end up walking away from him and go to my car, which he followed me, we were talking in the car and he kissed me then I woke up. The strange thing about this dream is my husband seems to be no longer in the picture, in the dream we are divorced, and he had the kids for the weekend. I have this dream or one like it almost everynight, The key things in the dream that stand out most to me is he's wearing a White Sweater and blue jeans, I seem to always be wearing a red shirt, with black jeans and a black leather jacket, now I know that colors are a major factor in dreams, so I don't quite get this, also my car is white, or baby blue, that is a little fuzzy. I hope someone can interpret this for me, because everytime I have this dream I get a sence that Cory is trying to send me a message, and I always get this urge to contact him, almost as if he is telling me to contact him or something telling me I need to talk to him I hope that makes sence, thanks
L.V.W. (aka Connie)

[daniel52986]

hello "LVW" its nice to see a new addition to the dream forum. Well your dream seems to have alot of signs, i wouldnt know what to tell you. Dont really know much about past with Cory, but perhaps he really is trying to send a message. how often have u had the dreams?

Btw - start a dream jhournal, there great. i started mine a week ago and its cleared up my dreams the more i keep writing in it.

-D-52986-

[ladybleu]

Is there any reason why you can't or shouldn't contact him? Just to say hello and see what he says from there?

[nani]

Hm, if colours are important for you, then I just might say that white is a holy and sexless colour, and red mixed with black usually is assigned to the "tantric-path", which means to arise the sexual energy to the higher chakras, transform lower energy into higher energy, in example lower personal love into a higher impersonal love. So I would feel a kind of transformation-process which is going on within you, which referres to him or to what he had meant for you once. You said that he`d broken your heart - so this dream could mean that this pain now is in a deep healing-process. But of course, as everything is connected with each other, it also could be possible that it in fact is a call from him too, because maybe he is in the same kind of process. Wether you speak with each other or not, this healing process could be taking part at the same time. And yes your husband is excluded, symbolized by divorce, cause he has nothing to do with the process of you both. The dream-end, which is kissing, for me also symbolizes something like healing, condoning or similar. Okay just some association from my view.
Anyways I hope and wish for you that you can relax into this surely for healing meant process.
la Nani