how do I heal?

[unicornus]

There are many time in my short life (I'm only 21) that I've been whipped, in many different ways. I've had many painful experiences, and it's been hard for me to move on. I found my spirituality in paganism, and in the Bible belt, that is rarely accpted by the masses. I believe in many things, but it has become hard for me to believe that things will get better any time soon. I really need some guidance, because I've become stagnant, and am feeling strongly that I should move on. However, I feel unable to do so, because of current circumstances practically welding me into place. Perhaps, what I need is to grow internally, but I think that I need help with that. My friends are at a loss, because they are at a similar crossroads to my own. I was thinking that perhaps others could help me, perhaps you guys?

Thanx,
unicornus

[~¤LilacSky¤~]

Hi there unicornus, glad to have you here, thanks for joining us..
I would say that sometimes we are blocked from moving forward untill the inner changes have stopped taking shape, I have realized over the years that a time for stagnation is sometimes the best thing we need in our lives, in order to manifest the life we wish to go after and create for ourselves, it sounds as if your confused and uncertain of your path, you have plenty of time to figure these things out,your inner changes will began to manifest and take form, and a new way of life will approach for you, perhaps following no path right now would lead you to the right one, and enjoying life in the now, not focusing on the past or the future, this always helps me anyway,I have found myself in this situation many of times, and I just went through another dark time in my life, though its nessecary for growth, it also takes time to develope, so hang in there, Im sure the time is not ripe to reap the harvest yet, but soon enough it will be..

[uriella]

Hi unicornus,

I have spent some years now progressing through what has been both the darkest, and at the same time the most enlightening, time of my life. At times I was beginning to lose hope that I would ever know simple happiness again, but I am now glimpsing the light at the end of this tunnel. I know now that peace and happiness will come for me, and in the meantime I am finding more moments of peacefulness and calm with the use of measures such as meditation and Reiki. I wish you well on your journey.

Love and Light, Uriella